Thursday, July 30, 2015

Purple Kisses

From left: Violet Volt (Milani), Blue Rose (NYC), Heroine (MAC), Lullabye (Kat Von D), Loud & Clear Lilac (Cover Girl)
In honor of National Lipstick Day, I decided  to do my first beauty post!  Lately I have been finding myself attracted to lip colors that contain purple hues.  Here are some of the lip colors that I found in my makeup bag, I took a photo showcasing each  color:

Thursday, July 16, 2015

The Friend Zone





The dreaded “Friend Zone” … the place where romantic aspirations go to die, or do they?  Over the years, I have heard men and women alike complaining about being delegated to the Friend Zone.  Let me share a story:


I had met a young man who was interested in me and had asked for my number.  Because I was also interested, I obliged.  During the first week of getting to know this guy, it was evident that he was in a hurry to be in a relationship.  While I liked this guy, entering a relationship so quickly didn’t seem like such a good idea.  But because I was interested, I used our time to learn as much about him as I could.  When he realized that I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with him (we had only been talking for less than 2 weeks), he became upset and declared that I was putting him in the “Friend Zone”.  I told him that if he ever planned on entering into a relationship with me that I prefer that we get to know each other and become friends first.  Almost immediately, his attitude toward me changed and he was no longer interested in pursuing a relationship with me.  His actions told me that he was more interested in being in a relationship than actually getting to know me as a person.  Honestly, if he was willing to give our friendship a chance to flourish, I’m pretty sure that I would have become ready to be in a relationship with him.  But, we never got that chance.
 

So is being in the friend zone such a terrible thing? I think it’s quite the opposite.