― David G. Allen
Patience. It’s the thing that I seem not to have enough of, despite most people describing me as a “patient person.” I think my (usually) soft-spoken demeanor and quiet strength steers people to believe that I have loads of patience. Sometimes this is true. But if you’ve spent enough time around me, you have soon learned that I have had moments where my penchant for patience was severely lacking. Just like gratitude, patience is something that we have to sometimes practice at. Here are some scenarios in which we can exercise our patient practices:
1.
Any time you experience a delay
That happens to us on almost a daily
basis. Whether you’re stuck in traffic
or on a particularly long wait at the doctor’s office, use this time to
reflect. The truth is, no matter how
carefully we plan, some things are just out of our control. Accept that fact that this is where you are supposed
to be at this moment, and let go of any tension associated with the delay.
2.
When someone else does things differently from
us
We all tend to think that our way
of doing things is best. Truthfully,
there are many methods of doing things.
Just because someone likes to drive a different route than you, or cook
a certain dish in a different way, doesn’t make them wrong. Instead of impatiently trying to make someone
bend to our ways, it would be easier to just extend acceptance and embrace
their differing methods.
3.
When things aren’t happening the way that we
would want them to in our lives
Sometimes we are most impatient with
ourselves, but it doesn’t really solve anything. If we have specific goals in mind that we
want to attain, we have to allow enough time for us to reach them. When we let go of the pre-conceived notions
of what our life is supposed to look like, then we allow room to embrace all
the awesome things that can (and will) unexpectedly happen to us. One thing about life that you can count
on: nothing ever stays the same. If you’re patient enough, you’re bound to see
some things in life turn out in your favor.
Stay Beautifully Encouraged & Empowered ❤
2 comments:
Thank you for the quote. Best wishes. Kim
No Kim--Thank you!
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