Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Winter Solstice

Sometimes a change in seasons and scenery can do you some good.  A checkered black dress and a crimson trench coat can immediately put you into the holiday spirit.  Details for my winter-ready look from Eloquii  and G Stage love can be found at the bottom of this post.

Thursday, November 10, 2016

The Perfect Match

Last month I had the pleasure of attending an October wedding.  Because Fall weather normally doesn't begin in South Texas until late November/early December, I was lucky enough to be able to pull of this lil number from Eloquii.  The dress's weightless texture, bold print and bright colors made it an instant hit.  To create an even more streamlined silhouette, I chose to add a stretchy black waist belt.  Jewelry from Charming Charlie brought additional visual interest and color.  My black quilted Tory Burch bag pulled my look together and added classic touch to a very feminine and fun look.

Dress Eloquii, Bag Tory Burch at Neiman Marcus Belt similar here and here Earrings similar Bracelet similar

Thursday, October 13, 2016

I'm Only Human

As human beings, we'd often like to think that we are the most evolved versions of ourselves--Even when we’re not.  Last week, I experienced that feeling.  For months now, I have forged a path toward happiness and healing.  I have identified mistakes that I have made in the past and promised myself that in the future I’d do better.  Everything is easy to say until of course, life tests you.

Thursday, January 14, 2016

Happiness Comes from Within

Have you ever wondered why some people, despite their wealth, power and material possessions are clearly unhappy with their lives?  I know I have.  As someone who went back to school full-time as single parent I can tell you that the struggle is real.  I always felt that my life would be so much easier if I just had a little more money so I wouldn’t have to worry about my car breaking down, repairs that my house  needed or how my bills were going to get paid.   Worrying about money caused me lots of stress which caused me to assume that folks with more money slept great at night because they didn’t have to worry about the things that I did.  Boy was I wrong.

Monday, December 14, 2015

Urge to Purge

For me, 2015 has proven itself to be a year of new beginnings.  In addition to all of these changes has come the strong urge to rid myself of the things that I no longer need in all areas of my life.  One of the ways that I have elected to accomplish this is to purge my closet of anything that is no longer needed.  Even though it seems like I do this every couple of years, this time is especially daunting because I have personally challenged myself to make sure there is a place for everything—no excuses.  This challenge has only highlighted the fact that I tend to hold onto to things for much longer than I should.

Wednesday, November 11, 2015


Change is good, but it can hard.  I have found that quietly observing life around me has been the best way for me to navigate through this season in my life.  I have given up holding on to old ways of life and have simply let them fall away without missing a beat.  I try not to overthink anything as I realize that good things take time and I should remain patient. 

I have always been someone who cares deeply for others, but I taken this time to be attentive to my needs and to take care of myself first.  So for me, this has been a season of pause.  Pause to think about and identify what my needs are and what my next moves are going to be.  Pause to plan out how I want my life to be and to be strong enough to be able to execute that plan.

Many of my heart's desires are coming true, and I have to prepare myself in order to be ready to receive that.

So today I encourage you to Pause.  It can make all the difference in the world.

Stay Beautifully Encouraged & Empowered 

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Patience is a Virtue

“Patience is the calm acceptance that things can happen in a different order than the one you have in mind.”
David G. Allen

“Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.”

“Why is patience so important?"
"Because it makes us pay attention.”
Paulo Coelho
Patience.  It’s the thing that I seem not to have enough of, despite most people describing me as a “patient person.”  I think my (usually) soft-spoken demeanor and quiet strength steers people to believe that I have loads of patience.  Sometimes this is true.  But if you’ve spent enough time around me, you have soon learned that I have had moments where my penchant for patience was severely lacking.  Just like gratitude, patience is something that we have to sometimes practice at.  Here are some scenarios in which we can exercise our patient practices:

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Be a Goal Digger

Goal digger.  Driven. Ambitious.  Those are some of the words that come to mind when I think of someone who has had success in accomplishing their goals.  But what if you’re someone who can’t seem to finish what you've started?  A procrastinator even? Here are some strategies that I have used to help me get closer to reaching my goals, no matter what they are.

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

An Attitude of Gratitude

It is always so easy to get caught up in what you don’t have; but have you ever taken the opportunity to reflect on what you do have and how blessed you are?  In my experience, gratitude always attracts more things to your life to be grateful for.  Sometimes you have to take a moment to put things into perspective...

Monday, August 17, 2015

Artist Spotlight

Safari Ride

Today's post is featuring Nottingham UK artist Laura E. Hutton.  If you are a fan of ethnic art, chances are you have come across one of  her many pieces via social media.  The first time I stumbled upon her work, my eyes were immediately tantalized by images that were bursting with vibrant hues that showcased beautiful women of all shades of color.  Recurring themes in Hutton's art are love, family, female empowerment, sensuality, sisterhood and body positivity.  In addition to the doe eyes and cupid's bow lips the women in Hutton's drawings possessed, I could not help but notice that these women were also very curvaceous!  I immediately became a fan of her work.
Black Diamond
I recently had the opportunity to interview Laura E. Hutton about her journey on becoming an artist: